I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.
I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California.
Talking with girls is a social skill that every man needs to learn.
Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women.Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast. When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.Girls get crushes on cute shy guys because they’re so mysterious and different from all the other guys who try to behave like bold smooth talkers.But as soon as a great guy starts to pursue a girl, she forgets about the shy guy because, well, he’s just not doing anything to reciprocate.I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism in Colombia and I am aware that there are many strip clubs, and brothels in Medellin.Strippers and hookers are not the type of girls that I date, so I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.Before you approach a girl, take a minute to relax. Take off your sunglasses, even if you’re at the beach.Focus on being grounded and allowing your body to relax while maintaining an erect posture. If the girl is walking, start your conversation with “excuse me” so you don’t startle her.”Practice starting conversations with everyone – random people on the street, bartenders, the cashier, anybody – to help build your skills.Did you know that your tone of voice can betray your inner nervousness? When you approach a pretty girl, just imagine you’re talking with your best friend.This will help to keep your tone of voice steady and neutral.