Dating oriental guys

Over the roof tops of capital City overlooking Sukhumvit Road, Soi Cowboy and Soi 31, French student Noody poses totally naked.

Her hairless Asian vulva and flawless petite body make the best object for fine art photography with scenic background.

Yes I know I've been doing that already for the most part, but even I admit to being a bit vague andsometimes when I write about it.

And yes I know I'm not a relationship expert, a PUA, or even a wingwoman. Indeed men are men, but there's still a fairly large gap in dating when it comes to black women and Asian men.

Perhaps this is a bit of a cop-out, but the majority of what I'm writing is coming from my experience; those experience happen to be of me as a black woman and how Asian men have reacted to it.

So I like said above, this is going to be a series of posts.

But it's subtle, and of course, few would admit to surfing online dating sites for Chinese women, yet when the only girls they date are Chinese, then the probabilities are in their favour.

Having said that, I'm surprised at what British men, both young and old, generally get away with when talking about East Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean etc.) as well as South East Asian women (Vietnam, Thailand etc.) I've heard my Caucasian friends recommend to their male, single mates that they should date “nice Chinese girls”, with the added bonus that Chinese women are far more sexually open-minded than Caucasian girls.

I was sick earlier this week, then was dealing with some stress with work.

It’s as if the Chinese are so foreign it doesn't count.

In the UK, Sherry Fang, a 26-year-old British Chinese student, tells me she's had strangers say to her “you look just like his ex, she was also Chinese”, and argues it would be wholly inappropriate if she were black or Indian.

After the controversial hip-hop artist’s comments hit the Web, fans of One Direction and Justin Bieber joined in mocking Lowe on Twitter and Instagram. An unfounded rumor that Lorde called those artists “ugly.” For the fans, criticizing Lorde’s boyfriend’s appearance has provided a means of retaliation.

YEAR IN REVIEW: 10 tips for a better life from The Times' Op-Ed pages in 2013Although it might just look like another case of ordinary teen cyber-bullying, this backlash is also indicative of the lingering stigma against dating Asian men, fueled by prejudice and racial stereotyping.