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Then, as things progress, you can each pick a sexy task to do. Pretend like he's there and dress up in some sexy lingerie that really puts you in the mood.
This was my first experience with Skype sex and I had a feeling that I was boldly going where I never had. Although many of us aren’t strangers to whispering sexy nothings into the phone, we’re now living in the day and age where we can not only hear the object of our lust, we can see them too.
I'm seeing a person who a) is a photographer and b) lives in a different country and c) is far more visual than me. I'm now relearning intimacy through a whole new medium. It's not like being right there with someone, but it also doesn't let your imagination run wild like phone sex or sending dirty emails; it's some whole new thing, with its own drawbacks and its own distinct pleasures. Skype sex is like watching porn that stars a person who (hopefully) you know for real, who's aware that you're watching them.
I'm still figuring it all out, but here are a few tips I've learned from my foray into this brave new world of e-humping. It's like porn you direct and co-star in, which is both exciting and nerve-wracking.
(If the latest onslaught of celebrity nude photo scandals has taught us anything, it’s that anything you do digitally has the potential to come back to bite you.) However, for couples who are far apart, a sexy phone or Skype date is a fun and easy way to help keep the intimacy alive. Katrina Mc Kay is a sexpert and CEO of Ohhh Canada. As she explains staying digitally connected is an important part of her relationship, “without Skype sex, I’d be pretty lonely and unsatisfied.
While sex via video stream isn’t anything like the real thing, it actually has its own benefits.