They don’t know what you’re thinking/feeling, so barely keeping in touch, like one text or call a week, is just confusing …So try to call or text her once every few days, to assure her that you intend to keep dating her. Check out our extensive research into how to text a girl.
Tell her you had a fantastic night, that you’ll call her soon… Because during this first stage of dating, women tend to over analyze things.
I guess my advice is: Feel free to say no to date ideas.
She might believe you and then feel bad when you don’t.
I’ll be coming in several times over the next few days with various people.
This happens for two reasons: 1)She’s on her best behavior. EVERY SINGLE WOMAN we’ve ever asked says that confidence is a deal-breaker when it comes to choosing a guy. It typically helps to practice just talking to women you don’t already know.
2) He isn’t self-aware enough to say, “I can’t/won’t ever give up my love of the Celtics. ” Yes, you have to compromise some, but get the important cards on the table early and stick to them. While you’re standing together waiting for a table, for example, lean into her a little bit (Be subtle! (Join a group, go, and be friendly.) But being really good at something that you can talk about is a shortcut to confidence.