What became so evident then was that I knew who I was as a person.
What really stuck out to me was that if I met a gentleman who was not divorced for more than one year, they were still so stuck on their marriage that an evening couldn’t go by without them bringing up their ex.
Kyle Bradford, my current guest has been divorced for nine years and is now engaged to be married to his Queen. It’s something that I’m going to have to continue to deal with, because I’m a very smooth talker and I can kind of talk my way out of anything, but at the end of the day, you can’t hide what’s going on inside of you and you can’t lie about that. I did not have to leave dead bodies along the way and obviously I mean that metaphorically.
I started to see things within her children that were impacting my kids from a behavior prospective and knew that it wasn’t going to get any better for her, so the relationship ended.
You can stay in your pajamas and watch chick flicks on Netflix, or you can get up early and run non-stop all day. The longer you wait, the more scared you are to enter the dating world, especially if you were married a long time and enjoyed the comfort and security of a loving relationship.
The thought of fielding pick-up lines from guys at bars can make you hyperventilate.
It is a very unfortunate thing that over the course of those early years that I made some of the mistakes that I made and I hate that. If I had a man or men in my life speaking to me, saying, “You need to really reconsider what you’re doing here,” I’m convinced I would not have made some of those choices.
I would often prey upon the single mothers who probably didn’t have a lot of confidence in themselves, because they were single moms and whatever and I would show them a good time and invariably within a month or two months into the relationship, they would want something else and I would be done, because I wasn’t ready.